February 18, 2019

To understand my affinity for RomComs, one will need to start from the very beginning. Specifically, the year 1990. I was a freshman in high school and I had just been introduced to Meg Ryan in "When Ha...

February 10, 2019


There is an old saying that goes " You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink."  This is true of today's modern dater.  

They are fed mass amounts of advice from all...

January 27, 2019

In 2009, I made one of the biggest decisions in my life when I packed my belongings, left everything I knew behind and moved to Los Angeles.

After a few terrifying, yet humorous dates, I decided to...

March 18, 2018

In 1994, I was a freshman in college. Alanis Morrisette and The Spice Girls were chart toppers, Independence Day was a box office hit and that was also the year I came out as gay to my family. 

It was th...

February 18, 2018

At Finding Cupid, we take our conversations about love pretty seriously. So it comes as no surprise that we are invested in the adventures of our single co-workers. When any of them need advice we gathe...

February 10, 2018

Make no mistake, 2018 is the year of taking control and making big changes. Sure, every year starts that way, but this year has a mantra and its all about dating “Dating with Intention!”

Say goodbye to t...

January 1, 2018

Let's face it, the very idea of making "New Year’s Resolutions" is pretty fucking amazing. 

Did you have a bad year? No worries, make a resolution to have a better one. 

Do you want to lose weight? Easy,...

December 3, 2017

Getting the courage to ask someone on a date is hard enough, but having to tell them you are not interested in a second date is a skillset that many have yet to master. 

Ok, that's to positive of a state...

October 15, 2017

There is an untapped resource in the world of dating. It's not a dating app, a website or even an exclusive club. It's Speed Dating! 

For the most part, the world of Speed Dating has been confined to awk...

October 9, 2017

My how things have changed over the last ten years.

Dating Apps and clever websites have replaced the good old days of meeting in person and the sheer act of getting to know someone has all but become ex...

May 31, 2015



How It All Started...


It had been almost 20 years since I left the tiny island of Guam, and headed to California.  Three days after I graduated from my high school,  I hopped on a plane and never look...

May 15, 2015



Just when you thought you knew every trick in the book on screening that potential love interest of yours, something happens to pull the rug up from under you! As you wipe the tears from your eyes and...

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