Bow Ties & Wedding Cake: The Art of Decision Making

November 2015 to May 2016 7 months till the wedding It's a pretty funny thing, these weddings. When they are first announced, there is is so much energy around how the coupled got engaged, how you tell it to the world and of course in all the engagement parties that follow. But soon after the glow of the many glasses of sparkly champagne wear off, you are left with one very scary reality... It's time to start planning a wedding. It's been 7 months since my engagement party and Jon and I have slipped back into a weird "blissfully ignorant" mode. John has been busy studying as his nursing program has become more intense and I have been busy with filming and managing my day to day Finding Cupi

Bow Ties & Wedding Cake: The Art of Decision Making

November 2015 to May 2016 7 months till the wedding It's a pretty funny thing, these weddings. When they are first announced, there is is so much energy around how the coupled got engaged, how you tell it to the world and of course in all the engagement parties that follow. But soon after the glow of the many glasses of sparkly champagne wear off, you are left with one very scary reality... It's time to start planning a wedding. It's been 7 months since my engagement party and Jon and I have slipped back into a weird "blissfully ignorant" mode. John has been busy studying as his nursing program has become more intense and I have been busy with filming and managing my day to day Finding Cupi

5 Things I Learned From My Breakup

An ugly breakup can leave you feeling disoriented, frustrated and longing. It can take every bit of energy, and altogether too much time that you may otherwise be spending on improving yourself. To grow beyond this point and learn to let go is not automatic, but one important way to achieve this is to closely examine what went wrong. Examine questions like "What actions did I take to cause this? What didn’t I do that may have prevented this? And most importantly: "Was this even my any of my fault?" The idea here is not to harp on past mistakes, or to blame oneself; you can learn and grow from any hardship, but only if you redirect your energy to doing so. As someone who recently survived t

5 Things I Learned From My Breakup

An ugly breakup can leave you feeling disoriented, frustrated and longing. It can take every bit of energy, and altogether too much time that you may otherwise be spending on improving yourself. To grow beyond this point and learn to let go is not automatic, but one important way to achieve this is to closely examine what went wrong. Examine questions like "What actions did I take to cause this? What didn’t I do that may have prevented this? And most importantly: "Was this even my any of my fault?" The idea here is not to harp on past mistakes, or to blame oneself; you can learn and grow from any hardship, but only if you redirect your energy to doing so. As someone who recently survived t

How to "Date" a F@CK Boy... According to Spencer (and David)

WARNING: NSFW: The F word is dropped a few times. So many times it's a drinking game. Enjoy. So Fuck Boys are basically Kryptonite to all of our hopes, dreams and actual plans of having solid long term relationships. But it doesn't have to be that way. Follow these simple rules and you'll be able to save yourself time and heartbreak.

How to "Date" a F@CK Boy... According to Spencer (and David)

WARNING: NSFW: The F word is dropped a few times. So many times it's a drinking game. Enjoy. So Fuck Boys are basically Kryptonite to all of our hopes, dreams and actual plans of having solid long term relationships. But it doesn't have to be that way. Follow these simple rules and you'll be able to save yourself time and heartbreak.

Divorce Doesn't Mean You Will Never Be Happy!

Not too long ago I was shocked to see that on the cover of a recent People Magazine was Drew Barrymore's beautiful face with a nasty caption about her divorce to her husband and father of her two young children. However, unlike most celebrity divorce announcements, this one actually upset me. Not because America's sweetheart was experiencing heartbreak, but the horrible portrayal of her divorce. How "Hollywood's former wild child" had "almost" made her "finally normal" life last, but she was just too wild to live that picket fence life. What's worse was the comments that followed the article from people around the world- how they thought Drew was "finally happy" and now she won't be "happy

Divorce Doesn't Mean You Will Never Be Happy!

Not too long ago I was shocked to see that on the cover of a recent People Magazine was Drew Barrymore's beautiful face with a nasty caption about her divorce to her husband and father of her two young children. However, unlike most celebrity divorce announcements, this one actually upset me. Not because America's sweetheart was experiencing heartbreak, but the horrible portrayal of her divorce. How "Hollywood's former wild child" had "almost" made her "finally normal" life last, but she was just too wild to live that picket fence life. What's worse was the comments that followed the article from people around the world- how they thought Drew was "finally happy" and now she won't be "happy

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